Healing your relationship with yourself, your body, and the most important people in your life.

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Sex and relationship therapy for people ready to enhance connection, desire, pleasure, and joy.

Lillian Bailey is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Lillian Bailey is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AAMFT Clinical Fellow

I am here to support you in your sexual challenges and help you find satisfaction and growth.

As an AASECT-certified sex therapist, I’ve dedicated my career to providing expert knowledge and compassionate guidance to people struggling with aspects of their sexuality, including shame, trauma, physical pain, and loss.

The people I work with courageously seek greater connection with themselves and others. Together, we work on helping you discover pleasure and desire, as well as a sense of ease and comfort in the body.

Sex. Pain. Rock n’ Roll?

I'm so honored to hold space for my clients and be trusted with their hopes and dreams for themselves and their relationships. I respect the confidence my clients put in me by pursuing excellence as a clinician and holding their stories with great care.

People who work with me note that I combine playfulness, humor and warmth with professionalism, expertise, and an ability help my clients explore very challenging or sensitive areas of their lives with deep care.

I specialize in working with:

People experiencing painful sex, pelvic pain, and chronic medical conditions that interfere with pleasure and desire.
Low desire, including individuals and couples where there are desire mismatches.
People who would describe themselves as sexually shy or inhibited.

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Encouragement

Focus often on where my clients are having successes and celebrate them for their wins!
Compassion

Offer clients compassion and teach them how to hold compassion for themselves.
Transparency

I want my clients to always feel like they understand what is going on in therapy and why we are doing what we are doing.
Empowerment

Clients feel like therapy results in them having more options, choices, tools and skills than they had when they first started their journey.
Playful Pleasure

Focus on (re)discovering how to have fun, be playful and feel good